Hayton, Beatrice Mathilda
Beatrice Mathilda (Deml) Hayton,
88, of Spencer and Phillips,
Wisconsin, passed away
peacefully at approximately 7:10
p.m. on Tuesday, June 23, 2009.
She was born November 5, 1920,
at her parents’ home in the town
of Goodrich in Medford,
Wisconsin, to John and Tillie
(Cullen) Deml. She completed
eighth grade in Whittlesey, Wisconsin. At the age of
19, she left Medford and met John Bernard Hayton in
Aurora, Illinois. They were married on December 6,
1941 in Harlingen, Texas. The couple traveled to
various states while John was in the Army but then
settled in Aurora, Illinois where Bea worked for
Stephens Adamson Manufacturing while raising their
two children, Judy & John. In 1958, they moved to
Marshfield, Wisconsin, and she and her family owned
and operated Riverside Tavern, which was a popular
bar, gas station, and grocery store. In 1964, the
couple divorced and Bea moved to Park Falls,
Wisconsin, for two years where she owned and
operated Bea’s Northern Bar. In 1967 she moved to
Bakerville where she owned and operated Bea’s
Bunker Hill for one year. She then moved back to
Marshfield. In 1972, she resided in Phillips but then
moved to Spencer, Wisconsin in 1973, where she
was a resident until the time of her death. In 1975
she began working for Land O’Lakes. She met
Eugene Richard Zuege in 1977, who was her partner
until his death on March 12, 2006. She retired in
1985. In 2007 and 2008, she won her legal right to
remain independently in her home in Spencer,
Wisconsin. She, however, agreed to spend the
Winter of 2008 and Spring of 2009 in Phillips, near
her daughter and granddaughters, with plans to return
to her home in Spencer shortly.
In her younger years, Bea enjoyed dancing with her
husband, John. She was a successful, intelligent
business woman. Later in life, she enjoyed baking,
fishing, gardening, finding bargains at garage sales,
and going for walks. She provided care for her
partner, Gene, when his health was failing. Bea was
a very independent woman, filled with life. She lived
on her own terms, never failing to speak her mind.
Her quick humor was appreciated by many. She
often enjoyed spending time with her daughter and
granddaughters, who helped care for her in her final
years.